This has been a huge problem for me to get past for almost my entire life. If you checked out my video that I posted on my page, you heard me speaking about the ends of my hair and how I cut them off. Cutting off hair has always been an easy task for me. Cutting off individuals not so much.
I have always had the ability to see the good in people. This ability has led me to endure friendships/relationships that probably should of ended before they even started. Seeing the good in others isn’t a horrible trait. The problem is when you can see that the person isn’t fit to be apart of your life but you neglect to cut the individual off.
As I’ve gotten older I have learned to protect my space and to monitor the energy that I surround myself around. If I am around someone and I feel as if they are literally sucking the life out of me. I know that this person isn’t fit to be apart of my life. As an adult, I have learned to disregard what others may say and to focus on what makes me happy.
You’re growth is important and if you realize that you aren’t growing or learning from those who surround you. It make be time for you to trim those ends.